Thursday, November 18, 2010

Its almost Friday

I've been absent the last few days and with good reason...

We have been redoing our bathroom taking it from this:



To this:
A work in progress...

Its a beautiful pale "tiffany's" blue

We have been trying new recipes (hello pizza bites!)


Thank you for the idea, MF!


  Dr. F was on the other side of the knife getting his wisdom teeth removed.
That's right, I ace-bandaged ice packs to his cheeks. I'm such a good nurse :)

And we've settled on a new color for our bedroom (to be painted next week!)




Oh yeah, did I mention Little Man's 2nd birthday is SATURDAY? OHMYGOSH! and relatives are descending on our house in a mere matter of days for Thanksgiving?! Yeah...we've been a little busy and I wouldn't trade it for the world!



Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Keeping up appearances

I am just going to come out and say it. I feel frumpy and like I'm just getting by. I miss feeling cute and pulled together. I miss having somewhere to go, getting dolled up and that powerful "I am a confident, together, sexy woman!" feeling. These days between a 2 yr old, working full time outside the home and being a full time mom and wife, I feel like its all slipped away...and I can't quite figure out how to get it back...and I'm only so willing to sacrifice the precious little sleep I already get.

It doesn't help that my office is business professional, as in a suit and pantyhose kind of dress code ( i.e. we're not allowed to show toe and heel at the same time...so peep toe slingbacks are out). I don't mind dressing up, but I sure as shit hate the dry cleaning bill and cant afford to buy a ton of those kinds of clothes on the little salary they're paying me. Top it off with the fact that I'm never going to fit into the nice dress clothes I wore to work when I was 23. Hell, I'm not going to be 23 again either. So now I'm rocking ill fitting dress pants and hand-me down sweater sets from my mom.

Now, let's address my hair, shall we? It is long and I like it that way and Dr. F likes it that way. But you know what, its getting cold waiting for the train every morning and wet hair isnt exactly professional. I've rocked a bun almost every day since I started way back in June because I dont have time to dry it (hello 20 min!) and straighten/curl (30+ min) everyday between getting myself and the Little Man out the door.* I'd love to chop it off and can't help but think a short style might actually make me feel like my appearance is visually interesting...but then I loose the bun option... plus with short hair that isnt tamed on a daily basis i look like this (a little less curly, a lot more frizzy):


Basically, I'm over here having a pitty party for myself, which is ridiculous because there are people who have much worse things to worry about...like keeping a roof over their heads or not having enough food. I'm sorry and I'll try to pull it together. Anyone have any tips for keeping up a stylish (not trendy!) appearance?

*side note, I have a LARGE forehead and a hairdresser recently told me I should never have a style without bangs...yay self confidence!

Monday, November 8, 2010

Thanksgiving part I

As this is my first year making Thanksgiving dinner and I'm slightly nervous about it... I've started planning everything and even made my apple pie last night and threw it in the freezer. So far I've got the apple pie and cheesecake made...only pumpkin pie to go and dessert will be covered. Wahoo! Getting there, baby steps at a time :)

Do you have a favorite Thanksgiving recipe you'd be willing to share with me?

Monday, November 1, 2010

Happy Halloween!

I have always loved Halloween and now that I have a child, its even better! I'm starting to realize one of the biggest joys of having a child is the opportunity to relieve some of your favorite childhood memories and to help create new ones for your own child. Plus, its pretty great having a pumpkin of candy to poach from once a certain dragon goes to bed :)
We had a great time last night with the cutest dragon in the neighborhood. He never quite got the words "trick or treat" out until we were at home opening the door for other kids, but Little Man sure understood what getting candy was all about!


Monday, October 25, 2010

Yay Weekend!

This weekend was pretty great. We went to Aidan's day care Halloween party and a wedding of some good med school friends up at Princeton. We were even lucky enough to be able to spend the night away and really enjoy ourselves (translation...be mega hung over after only 4 drinks. i am officially a light weight...) Dr. F even indulged me and we walked around Princeton's campus before heading home so I could drool over all of the architecture.



Our little Dragon

Dr. F doing a little GaGa


Princeton's cheap knock-off of the WM Wren Building
The Real Deal

We're going streaking through the quad and into the gymnasium!

Princeton in the Fall

Friday, October 22, 2010

Political (UN)correctness

First I want to put this out there, I do not consider myself interested in politics, try to stay away from political discussions as much as possible and do not use this blog as a place to promote any political agenda. You may even remember how Dr. F and I voted in the Presidential Election in separate rooms and decided not to tell the other how we voted. However, as the midterm elections are a few days away and we get a barrage of Deleware, Pennsylvania and New Jersey ads on TV and radio, I am getting really sick and tired of the nasty, empty campaigns people are running. Finally just a few days ago, NPR fired Juan Williams...the Washington Post wrote this article about it.

If my understanding is correct, Juan Williams simply said he felt nervous when someone who was dressed in easily identifiable Muslim clothing boarded a plane. He also went on to say he wanted to make a distinction that it was extremists and NOT moderates who were responsible for the Sept. 11 attacks. Ok, let me get this straight, he simply expressed how he felt even though it didn't quite jive with what he knew intellectually. Furthermore, he was not on the clock at NPR and he is known, among other things, as

                             ... a longtime reporter, columnist and editorial writer at The Washington Post. 
                              He has written extensively on the civil rights movement, including a book on the
                             African- American religious experience and a biography of Supreme Court Justice
                             Thurgood Marshall, the first black justice. 

The backlash this firing has caused is actually heartening. Williams, whether you agree with him or not, is coming out smelling like a rose, while NPR, which we regularly listen to in the car, is facing some harsh, and deserved criticism. American's should be proud free speech, and it is a right that is threatened every day. Whether you like what Mr. Williams said is irrelevant. He expressed how he felt as an individual while not in an official capacity related to his employer, NPR. If these comments were hate speech or slander, they absolutely should not be protected under freedom of speech, but we have become a nation so obsessed with political correctness that is a burden just like all of those empty political ads that actually say nothing, I am afraid that we are tripping over ourselves so much that we can't actually say anything. Am I offended by a Menorah next to a Nativity set in December? Nope. I think its great to represent different faiths and traditions. In fact, bring on the Kinara (The Candle Holder) for Kwanzaa! I am not offended someone has a different belief than me and think this is a great opportunity to learn something new.

Another thought, and speaking as someone who has a degree in Anthropology, it is actually a survival mechanism to be fearful of something or someone different than one's self. It is a gut reaction. Have we intellectually moved on from this, absolutely! but let's not pretend that momentary reaction has been obliterated through evolution. Mr. Williams had the guts to say what so many of us think. You don't have to agree with him (isn't this country beautiful!?) but you have to respect the cajones to actually say what you think.

Finally, I don't particularly like Jon Stewart. Often I find him loud, obnoxious and too one sided. However, I think he may be on to something. Mr. Stewart, I don't like you, but I respect that you may have a different opinion than me, and that's ok.