Thursday, June 11, 2009
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
summer reading
So now I've graduated, finished that darn thesis, and am finding myself in need of some good reading material. You know, the fun, don't have to underline/highlight etc., kind of reading. I have the comfy chair on reserve and with Little Man getting to bed earlier and Mr. F studying, I NEED a few good books! So,any and all suggestions welcome...well, except sci-fi, or fantasy:).
Monday, June 8, 2009
counting blessings
It finally happened...and I've been dreading this day for quite some time...my first student loan bill arrived in the mail. Now, if i were gainfully employed (permanently, cause a 12 week internship with no benefits doesnt count), or weren't paying an astronomical amount in daycare, or well... you know watching more money go out each month than comes in, maybe I wouldn't have had such severe heart palpitations. However, because we are poor students, we qualify for economic hardship deferment. THANK GOD. When I called the loan agency the guy actually laughed at me when I told him our cash flow stats coupled with the fact that Mr. F is still in medical school...and don't even get me started on those loans... It's days like this I question the intelligence of my decision to go to grad school, but then I remind myself that school is an investment and you've got to spend money to make money, right? right?! oh, I hope I'm right!
While we may be the stereo type of the "poor grad student" I know there are countless other people out there loosing their jobs, in debt up to their ears, and loosing their homes. This is why every night before I fall asleep I say a prayer of thanksgiving for a roof over our heads, food on the table, and the love of our family.
I heard on Oprah once about counting your blessings and you'll realize you are rich. I thought that was a bit odd at the time, but now I see the value in it and I hope you feel the same.
While we may be the stereo type of the "poor grad student" I know there are countless other people out there loosing their jobs, in debt up to their ears, and loosing their homes. This is why every night before I fall asleep I say a prayer of thanksgiving for a roof over our heads, food on the table, and the love of our family.
I heard on Oprah once about counting your blessings and you'll realize you are rich. I thought that was a bit odd at the time, but now I see the value in it and I hope you feel the same.
Thursday, June 4, 2009
opa!
This past weekend was gorgeous, which makes up for the crappy, rainy weather we've had this week, and we headed out to a Greek Festival down the street from us. It was fantastic, although the WHOLE lamb on a spit was enough to turn my stomach just a little. I am not, and could never be a vegetarian, but that was tough to look at. Mr. F and I indulged in some homemade baklava and mousaka, which is eggplant and mashed potatoes with ground beef. Its DELICIOUS!! And of course, Aidan was looking adorable in a blue and white seersucker outfit that shows off his delightfully chunky baby thighs and the old Greek ladies loved it :)
Its hard to believe my first week of work is over already...only 11 more to go till I become unemployed again, and that stinks! However, in the last few days I've had several experiences that affirm my career choice and I'm so excited to get into my field in a professional capacity. I can honestly say this is the first time I'm excited about my job, or at least future jobs (cause how much fun can an intern really have? :) Today I got to sit in on a committee meeting and not only did I understand all of the jargon, but I understood the legislation and theory behind the decisions being made. So I did learn something useful in school, after all! Plus the people I work with are very nice and most of us happen to be graduates of the same program in different years. Finally, taking the Little Man to day care has been super tough and I'm having mommy guilt like crazy. I mean, he was already going 3 days a week and that was good because I was able to get critical things, like grocery shopping, done. But now I miss him sooo much and feel bad that he's gone all day. I know he likes it and is getting great social interaction and we feel comfortable with the staff, but still... And to top off the working mom experience, I get to close the door twice a day and pump in the office! I bet they never had an intern with a breast pump before! Its a little awkward for me, but we're trying to keep Aidan on breast milk in addition to veggies and fruit and a little formula here and there until he's a year old. Plus, I'm just not ready to stop nursing.
This weekend we're heading to MD for some mini-family reunion fun and its Aidan's first overnight somewhere other than his grandparents. Keep your fingers crossed it goes well...this is a mini test for our upcoming TX trip for an other side of the family mini reunion!
Its hard to believe my first week of work is over already...only 11 more to go till I become unemployed again, and that stinks! However, in the last few days I've had several experiences that affirm my career choice and I'm so excited to get into my field in a professional capacity. I can honestly say this is the first time I'm excited about my job, or at least future jobs (cause how much fun can an intern really have? :) Today I got to sit in on a committee meeting and not only did I understand all of the jargon, but I understood the legislation and theory behind the decisions being made. So I did learn something useful in school, after all! Plus the people I work with are very nice and most of us happen to be graduates of the same program in different years. Finally, taking the Little Man to day care has been super tough and I'm having mommy guilt like crazy. I mean, he was already going 3 days a week and that was good because I was able to get critical things, like grocery shopping, done. But now I miss him sooo much and feel bad that he's gone all day. I know he likes it and is getting great social interaction and we feel comfortable with the staff, but still... And to top off the working mom experience, I get to close the door twice a day and pump in the office! I bet they never had an intern with a breast pump before! Its a little awkward for me, but we're trying to keep Aidan on breast milk in addition to veggies and fruit and a little formula here and there until he's a year old. Plus, I'm just not ready to stop nursing.
This weekend we're heading to MD for some mini-family reunion fun and its Aidan's first overnight somewhere other than his grandparents. Keep your fingers crossed it goes well...this is a mini test for our upcoming TX trip for an other side of the family mini reunion!
the meaning behind the name
it has recently come to my attention that "with wiz" seems like an odd blog title, so here's the explaination...
when you order a cheesesteak in philly you
a. NEVER call it a Philly cheesesteak, drop the Philly... we know where you are
b. order it with or with out cheese wiz and i ALWAYS order mine "with"
so there ya go:) with wiz it is!
when you order a cheesesteak in philly you
a. NEVER call it a Philly cheesesteak, drop the Philly... we know where you are
b. order it with or with out cheese wiz and i ALWAYS order mine "with"
so there ya go:) with wiz it is!
Friday, May 29, 2009
The Prince and the Peas
Aidan is growing by leaps and bounds and is really getting into eating veggies. Well, this morning he was working on some peas and discovered that by blowing air out while I spoon the peas into his mouth, they would spray them alllll over him and me and his tray and...well, you name it. This, apparently, was hilarious.
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
6 months!!!
Today Aidan turns 6 months old! HOLY COW!! This has been the fastest 6 months of my life and I could never hope to chronicle every emotion or amazing moment, I can say I've never been happier, loved so much, or known how much joy one little person can bring. He's already sitting up on his own, eating veggies baby style, and showing us what a mischievous little personality he's got. Boy, do I love that kid!
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